To my son:

I’m sitting here thinking about your upcoming home visit. While I’m feeling a bit anxious, I’m also feeling happy and eager to see you.

It’s really been an amazing year for both of us.

We have been able to talk about and grieve the past.

You have learned a lot about yourself and what you can accomplish.

We have both learned to “hear each other”.

You’ve gotten to experience such things as river rafting, hiking, and horseback riding.

We have been able to make “good” memories during our visits.

You are doing fantastic in school.

You’ve learned about getting “over the bumps in the road.”

I have learned to “accept the things I cannot change and change the things I can.”

We’ve made new friends.

You’ve learned that you can conquer fears (swallowing pills, flying, being away from home, etc.)

Son, while I know that you were not thrilled that I sent you to Bridges, I’m extremely proud that you continue to work your program. You have gone through many up’s and down’s (experiencing lots of new feelings) – and you keep moving forward. You are gaining knowledge and skills, which will help you out in the world. You are succeeding.

You are becoming a wonderful young man and words cannot express how proud I am of you.

Love always,

Mom

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